I want to say thank you to all who have shared there experience. This is my wife's account but she is crying in the bath tub right now. So she asked me to do this for her. This is the first time she has had this and it has been over a week. It seams to only get bigger and more painful each day. We have been putting this concoction on the out side of her Virginia and sitting in the bath. Nothing seams to change. Are we doing this wrong? Please help us. We are unsure about where it is supposed to burst. I have looked everywhere and I can not find anything that seams to be a head. My wife is in extreme pain and does not want to go to the hospital. Thank you for helping.