So my birthday just passed yesterday and I'm a twin. Decided to not make any plans with co workers because my family always have a celebratory dinner. By 5pm I'm still at home waiting to see if my parents remembered. When they walk through the door they say nothing. I have a younger brother who has always been the favorite, if he told my parents to jump they would ask how high. My sister and I have always been put aside. It's to the point that my sister and I hate having birthdays at all. We weren't expecting a parade or anything but just an acknowledgement that you care to even remember would have been enough. My sister and I (even though we are 28) sometimes it would be nice to be reminded by your love ones that we do matter. I'mma let you know now that I sometimes go into Depression and it's can go one for weeks at a time. But being in an Asian family we a brought to be the bigger and understanding person. It's come to the point where I bottle these feelings up inside and I know it's not healthy but what can you do when the people closest to you think I might be over reacting. Fml...