I think that taking the time to describe things really helps a lot in understanding what people are talking about: what they are experiencing, seeing, "feeling" or whatever. Even if the description gets a little graphic... what are we here for? To be "nicey-nice" and "politically correct?" Or to really understand this stuff, each others' experiences, and find things that work for us? So I "do my thing"... hehe, I guess it's ok... :)