"Then there's the power play situation...the woman may not really want to kill her baby but she's doing it as a power play, but she's hurting herself, her baby, and father. It's really a shame. You're using someone's LIFE to prove that you can kill something growing inside you so your man won't think you are a push-over. You should use another way to assert yourself instead of killing your OWN CHILD AND POTENTIALLY HARRMING YOU OWN BODY."
I have never heard of such things! Have you actually run into anyone who has said this? (In which case, you have run into some pretty sick puppies!) Or is this a scenario you IMAGINE might happen? (In which case, it would seem you are in the middle of a pretty dark place yourself. Of course, that would explain why you are so quick to talk about dark places . . . they're familiar.)