Re: Friend in need

Is that her who wants to buy a house, or him ? who spoke of that ? it seems that she wants to buy a house with him, and he doesn't want... sounds that they still need councelling, or breaking, if they don't have any intimacy and she feels he is not close to her emotionally.
Who is holding on in their relation ? does he hold on too ? he seems to be only a roomate, so what ? does he stay for his child ?
I would think frankly, if that's all he shares, not the money, not the emotions, no intimacy, not the care of the child, he should leave right away, it would be better for her to find another man who would care for her.
Anyway, she can't stay in this situation, she has to put the limits right here, or he stays and is in the relationship, or he moves out... and see how he reacts. If he says Ok, gets away, and doesn't try to change, that's it. Better leave it at that before it gets worse.
Only my perception.