I'm sorry I haven't gotten to your post earlier. I am in New York, N.Y. (Manhattan), and there is an organization that helps single mothers called WOMEN IN NEED. I don't know if they are in other states, but you might be able to find other affiliates. Their website is
www.Women-In-Need.org
The web address is exactly as I wrote it (capitals and dashes). I will put the automatic link to it at the bottom of this page.