My pain is upper right side actually. It does include sholder as well at times.
Thank you Telman for your time and thorough answer. Its wonderful and comforting to hear words from seasoned flushers. I suffer with a little anxiety about doing these flushes because they seem to be so hard on my body and few carry no side affects afterwards. That with the perimenopausal stuff combined can sometimes cause an emotional overload. I do feel I am making progress though and I'm very thankful for that. I guess I just have to trust the process more and hearing from people like yourself assures me that I am heading in the right direction.