Re: we generally are the creators of our own dramas...

It is because life as it is seems to be just too much boring... i've read that most rapes occur because the one that is raped wanted it to happen.
the idea that one is so irresistable as to make someone go literally 'ape' over oneself is the person's own deep desire to have it happen... and so one is not entirely innocent.

this is taken to the extreme when one "believes" that one is so desireable that even spirit entities cannot control their appetites, and then commits rape...
Now that makes life worth living... or not worth living... either way, its not dull anymore.

one needs to be honest with oneself and try to look into the desires that linger deep within. and ask oneself "why i am bored with this beautiful and mystifying existence?"