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Control and Learing How to Act on Things Rather Than React by vairagi 10 year 1 of 1 (100%)
By asking such questions we reveal our willingness to grow and learn. By accepting our often uncomfortable expanding awareness, by gaining insight into how we can learn to face challanges head on, rather than react after the happening of things.
Rather than reacting to the curveball coming at us and looking inept or foolish, we act on the curving ball and put it exactly where we would choose, like over the fence or out of the park
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By asking such questions we reveal our willingness to grow and learn. By accepting our often uncomfortable expanding awareness, by gaining insight into how we can learn to face challanges head on, rather than react after the happening of things.
Rather than reacting to the curveball coming at us and looking inept or foolish, we act on the curving ball and put it exactly where we would choose, like over the fence or out of the park
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Control by vairagi 10 year 1 of 1 (100%)
You are in complete control of your internal decisions already, youve been in control all the time. Every time you fail, remind yourself of what you really want to achieve, without any recrimination for doing the opposite, just matter of factly know it and move on.
When we are making choices that continue our suffering, we are trying to ignore, by denying, the present pain we are in.
Often trying to avoid confronting because we are caught up in believing the lie that pain is too difficult or unrewarding to deal with.
When we decide enough is enough and decide to face any pain no matter how difficult because we dont want to suffer in the way we have been, we find that the pain can be experienced and overcome. Its not as big a confrontation or experience to face the pain as we had imagined.
Suffering finally goes away when we choose to face and learn to work hard, no matter the pain we may experience.
The question is rather than why, but how long will we continue in a pain filled choosing cycle. How long? Till we surrender to the feeling experiences of living and act smartly according to whats facing us at the moment.
When we learn to accept the pain,
The suffering goes away.
When we learn to work hard,
Everything we do is play.
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You are in complete control of your internal decisions already, youve been in control all the time. Every time you fail, remind yourself of what you really want to achieve, without any recrimination for doing the opposite, just matter of factly know it and move on.
When we are making choices that continue our suffering, we are trying to ignore, by denying, the present pain we are in.
Often trying to avoid confronting because we are caught up in believing the lie that pain is too difficult or unrewarding to deal with.
When we decide enough is enough and decide to face any pain no matter how difficult because we dont want to suffer in the way we have been, we find that the pain can be experienced and overcome. Its not as big a confrontation or experience to face the pain as we had imagined.
Suffering finally goes away when we choose to face and learn to work hard, no matter the pain we may experience.
The question is rather than why, but how long will we continue in a pain filled choosing cycle. How long? Till we surrender to the feeling experiences of living and act smartly according to whats facing us at the moment.
When we learn to accept the pain,
The suffering goes away.
When we learn to work hard,
Everything we do is play.
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