You can’t make him stop it - only he can do that.
But what you CAN do, is make his life outside of gambling so good that he doesn’t even think about it. Since he’s in the military, it is quite possible that he’s away from home too often; maybe that’s at the root of the problem. Every one of us needs to do something for himself/herself. But when job or something else doesn’t allow you to have good sex, good time with friends or family, fun time, and so on, then an addiction starts. Where happiness is lost, that’s where an addiction is found.
Try to show him that there are other things ...
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