What you are doing for this ”troubled” individual is called ”enabling”. YOur pity for her and her son is not directed in an appropriate helping manner. Remove her ”crutch” of free living; plus, install other measures which would help save her son. Yes, she would have trouble with her life one way or the other. However, it would come to a climax and she would be forced to either correct her behaviour to a more reasonable manner, or she would do what you fear most, lose it all.
This fear of her losing it all is what prompts you, her loving parents, to continue her ability to spiral dow ...
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