My wife and I have been married for 22 years. I recently discovered that she has been having a secret two-year love affair with a man in another state that works for her same company. This follows another one-year affair that she had had about 14 years earlier with a man who lives in the same area as we do now. After my recent discovery, we rationally discussed where to go from here, as we have a vulnerable 10-year old son to think about (we also have two older boys in college). My wife and I still get along, but she struggles to be intimate with me, and confesses she has never really ...
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