Hi Kat. I’m so sorry I didn’t notice your reply to my posting until now. For some reason, your reply was seperated from the rest of the replies and in it’s own indentation so I didn’t notice it. Man, I’m sorry for what you went through too. I know exactly how you feel. I guess I could understand about not being able to confront your abuser because I was so scared to tell anyone or confront Dave too. Dave had me so scared of him with his violence and threats that I didn’t end up telling my mom or the police. I finally ended up telling my best friend. I think it’s because he was my age and I ...
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Thank you so much Bluerose and Soulfulsurvivor for such nice and encouraging words. You two are so very kind. Like I said before, I’m so glad I found this forum. I wanted to share the happy and relieving news that I finally got my HIV tests results back and they are negative. I was so worried because it was taking so long for the results to come back. All the other STD test results came back quickly so I was worried as to why the HIV one didn’t. My Mom was so great at trying to comfort me and stay calm but I know inside she was just as worried as me. Then we got the call and I thi ...
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I (the 14yr old boy) just wanted to write back to let you all know that everything is working out better than I thought it would. Mom and I are both going to joint counseling to help get over this. It has been very helpful into realizing just how much my Mom felt guilty for not being able to protect me and how her love for this man turned to hate as soon as she found out that he hurt me. It made me realize that I didn’t have to worry that she’d have taken Dave’s side over mine if I had told her, because she wouldn’t have. Mom is trying to overcome her feelings of guilt and helpless ...
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Thank you all for your support and advice. Here’s how the past few hard days have been. Last Sunday was spent trying to find the courage to tell Mom but every time I tried to, I couldn’t get the courage or Dave was always around. Then I spent my time in my room picking up the phone & hanging it back up trying to find the courage to call the police. Every time I picked the phone up, my heart would beat so fast & my stomach would get queasy. Then I just laid on my bed quietly crying because I was so mad at myself. At the dinner table, Mom noticed that I was upset even though in the past I ...
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How do I get a social worker? Will I have to have my Mom present to get one? And yes, I am a fourteen year old boy. Why? Am I supposed to be a girl in order to use this site? Is this just for girl victims and is there an age limit for this site? I don’t understand what you mean by ’tone’. I didn’t know that this was for girls only. I’m sorry but I did a search for help on rape victims and this was one of them I came up with. I’m sorry if I’m not supposed to post here but I needed someone to talk to about this. I need help. If this is only for girls, can you tell me what site has help f ...
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I know I should call the cops. That is something I thought about because then they could put him in jail but do you think they might call my mom a bad mom and put her in jail too? I mean, she didn’t even know but some cops say that the mom should have saw the signs. But it’s my fault for making excuses and pretending I’m okay. I don’t want my mom to get into trouble. And do you think he will go to jail for sure? I’m scared that he might not get jail time and then he could come after us. I am scared to do this but I know it’s the only way to make it stop so I will do it but I’m mostly scare ...
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I found this forum while typing in ’rape victims support’. I neep some advice from anyone here, other than talking to a teacher or friend because I don’t want my mom to find out. I just don’t know what to do. I’m a 14 year old boy who is being raped by my mom’s boyfriend. They have been dating for two years and he moved in with us last year. I thought Dave(not his real name) and I were getting along great and he seemed cool until four months ago when my mom went to work(she works evenings), Dave looked at me differently. Before he looked at me in a fatherly way but this time he looked a ...
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