In my case, I didn’t teach my wife how to ejaculate...she did it on her own. My wife has never been real sexual. She doesn’t like any kind of oral sex, or anything too wild and crazy. We’ve always had a good sex life together and we’ve always enjoyed new positions. She does like toys, not at first, but she has always warmed up to them. Lately I’ve become numb so we’ve experimented with different positions to help increase my feeling it...pressure in the right spot. Our latest position has yielded her being able to reach Ambrosia. She lays on her back and pulls her feet up and places the ...
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My wife doesn’t enjoy oral and has never cllmaxed that way or even had a good time. She does on the other hand cllmax with ”normal” intercourse. Not every time and usually when she is on top which does stimulate her clit better. I will admit that she does have better cllmaxes with toys and my hand...which does, as stated above, stimulate the clit better. So it is possible, contrary to the statement above, to cllmax during ”regular” intercourse.   [End]
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You state that you are a Christian...in a round about way by stating you want Christian views on the subject. You have a very good belief, contrary to what others might think, in not having sex until you are married. From this post and your previous posts I get the idea that ”sex” to you is the actual insertion only. You can refer that to the ”sex act” but sex involves foreplay and the various ways you can bring each other off. In reading your previous posts I see a natural progression in your relationship. Your fist two posts dealt with you being concerned for your weight and how your bo ...
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The woman is not always ”into” the kissing. My wife is not into kissing all that much. She does not like the down her throat, all over her face, wet kisses. She prefers the closed mouth simple kiss. Sometimes in the ”heat” of things she will do an open mouth kiss but the first thing she does is wipe her mouth off. I prefer the more passinate kisses and they don’t have to lead to more sexual activities. This leads to a question...for the guys mostly...does the more passinate kissing lead to more sexual contact more in married or unmarried men (or couples)?   [End]
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I have to totally disagree with the above post. You have kept your virginity for a reason. Why throw that very special personal closeness away on a one night fling? Don’t! I was a virgin when I was married at 19. It really meant something to me that my wife had ”saved” herself for me. It was a once in a lifetime experience that we shared together. It really added to the excitement to explore new areas together. Don’t cave in to todays thinking and pressure. Stand up for what you believe in. More power to you. Hand in there!   [End]
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You seem to have a handle on what a man likes from the pointed questions you asked. Here is ”my” take... ”For men, what is the most sensitive area of the penis that you like sucked/licked; shaft, head, under the head, scrotum or around the scrotum?” For me it is the head and the bottom of the shaft leading up to the head. ”What other areas of the body are very sensitive for you?” Ears, nipples, and the area between my balls and my anus. ”Would you rather have a back massage, full body massage, foot massage..etc?” My wife gave me a full body massage one time by oiling me down an ...
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Well this is your second qustion dealing with this area. Your first was ”do men like giving women oral sex ?” May I ask why the questions? To answer your first question...for me...yes, I like ”going down” on my wife. As to what ”I” like about it...the looks, the smell, the taste, the feel, the moisture, and what it does to me :) I am going to guess that you are a woman (?) and are dealing with questions or feelings you have. Hope this helps.   [End]
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I am in the same situation. My wife has made the statement that she does oral (give/receive) for me. But as was stated I don’t like to ask for it. I would like to think that she enjoys it and would want to go down. It just doesn’t feel the same if you have to ask for it. She knows what I like and what feels good but she doesn’t ”do” any of it. It is always the same old thing time and again. It has gotten to the point of me being one of the husbands you read about who is not interested in sex anymore. Okay, I sort of got off topic....   [End]
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Thanks for all of the comments both here and personal. I have taken your advice...but struck out...again...and again. I am to to point of giving up...again. I bought a G Spot vibrator but didn’t get any response. I think she getts all up tight and worried that she won’t respond to the way I want her too so she freezes. I ended up using it like I do any other vibrator and she started laughing like crazy and pulling my hand away just as she started cumming. So it is back to the same ole same ole...Thanks again for your help. Hopefully your words will help someone else.   [End]
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I need some advice on what the best position is for a woman to be in for the best oral stimulation. Pillows? Toys? Let me give you a little background check. My wife refers to her private parts as “down there”. She would not let me perform orally on her for years. She has finally “allowed” me to go down but I have not been able to satisfy her this way. She states that she does it for me only. I tried really hard the other night to bring her off this way but I wasn’t able to. She did say that it felt good a few times but nothing to take her over the edge. We’ve been married 26 years and we ...
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I have bought my wife several ”toys” to spice things up. She was very hesitant at first for me to use them but she ”warmed” up to them real fast. I would have to admit that she has had more powerful cums and cllmaxes using the toys. Does that bother me? Not at all. I am into pleasing my wife sexually and if that means using a toy from time to time then I am all for it. Besides it is very sexy to me to watch her reach a cllmax. She has used them by herself also...but not with me around. She claims that is ”too personal” to do in front of me. One of my ultimate fantasies is to be able to wat ...
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