To be brutally honest, if I was his wife, it would be - one strike and you’re out   [End]
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You may probably know this already, but in case you don’t - vitamin E helps prevent any damage you may have from high bp. Also vitamin C is good for that too. A simple breathing exercise to try: instead of breathing as you normaly do (feel it in your chest area), try to breath using your belly. Instead of your chest moving as you breathe, try to inhale with your tummy coming out and then in as you exhale. I hope I explained it well... I know it may sound crazy, but it is a proven technique to reduce the stress level - it can’t fail. Oh one other thing - make sure you get enough sleep ...
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I wouldn’t rate his webcam relationship as ”p 0 r nography”, more cyber sex, which I think is much more damaging to a relationship (with big question being if it was with a willing adult looking for a partner or if it was through some p 0 r n service). While on the subject of p 0 r nography, while it can be an addiction, and content of it is often horribly ugly, I don’t think it is always and necessarily damaging or sign of a deeper issue - depending on the content of course, as so many different things are considered ”p 0 r n”. It could be that here I am confusing erotic with p 0 r no ...
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It seems to me that he gets quite a bit of satisfaction from not being caught (or being naughty and not being caught), and you get some sort of satisfaction from outsmarting him. If this cat and mouse game is the underlying dynamics of your relationship, then you first need to change that. Be equal partners, don’t be his boss or persecutor (as evidenced by the request that he fess up with his parents), and he needs to learn to be responsible and mature.   [End]
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