I feel for you - it’s hard enough just reading your story, and I cannot imagine how hard it must be to be not only abused by brothers, but also by parents! I’ll try to just stick to your questions: 1. First of all - you HAVE to go to police. This is no joke. If your brother was stealing your toys, well then you could resolve that with him. But sexual abuse is the worst form of physical abuse and doing it so early in one’s life points to some serious troubles. If no one reacts to their behaviour they will with time only become worse, until one day someone gets seriously hurt. Therefor ...
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Being a male myself I can tell you that not all males are like that. However, I do think that in western society, especially in N.America, a very large percentage of males are like that. I would dare say that sadistic attitude in bed with no regard for partners feelings is a good proof of their deep rooted problems - they basically need professional help.   [End]
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He will probably try again to hurt her before the police get to him. He may even try to kill her. In her place, I’d move out of town just to be safe, and then would make sure that no one has my contact info at least until this guy ends up in jail. The problem is that he will direct all his rage at her, and if he’s not in jail, he will look for her probably to kill her. I am not kidding. That’s why it’s best to stay as far as possible from him. Also - how about some self defence classes? Aikido, or similar? That may help her not only to defend herself if attacked by him again, but ...
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