I know that you are correct in that we both have weak realtionship styles. I try to be as understanding as I possibly can be. I was just starting to see a pattern of him taking advantage of me and I acted out on it. I always seem to have that problem with men. I am a very caring person and when I care about someone I would do anything for them within reason. Am I just meeting the wrong men over and over? Men who take advantage of women or men who can't accept a woman actually being good to them? Anyway, I do agree that I acted improperly out of frustration. I usually don't go there! Thanks for your advice.