I think you miss the idea or concept behind a confessional forum ! I beleive its meant to be a place to open up and admit your indiscretions with undue harrasment! Just by the act of confessing admits an awareness of wrong doing, it needs no rebuttal, or admonishment! This I believe is not a place for the perfect person ,but for those who err, make mistakes, (it is human nature) and have the courage to face them and make them public! An airing out so to speak to help put things in perspective to those who so desire! Or even a place to concur with those of similar regrets or remorse!
Few will confess if known antagonists are waiting for them! Defeating the whole purpose of this forum!