People use sex to control and manipulate others.
Lack of sex drive is a problem if you are married, but if you are single than this is a Godsend. The dating world is horrendous. If you are sexually addicted you might find a hard time waiting for you in the single world especially if you are not "Gods gift" type person. You will find more success climbing Mt. Everest blindfolded than finding true love with which to share great sex. It's too hard. Be thankful. Nothing is wrong with you per se. Maybe there may be something going on with your pituitary gland or something like that.