well to answers the question that i think are revalent to a good advice are.. im currently in college, im a stay at home mom and my family doesnt get invovled because its my choice..
and yes are relationship before our child was great... we arent married and yes i wanted to go to counseling but not him.. when i said things are going smoothy for the moment is because i just dont care anymore about what he does...
and there are too many reasons why i want(ed) to leave him...
if there is no trust there really isnt nothin.. so with that.. its all said