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Re: no!
YES, Alikat - I don't understand the insistance that someone develop a game-playing mean-streak when managing a relationship.
Jacob - every day that passes is a day that you have grown wiser and healthier. Sexual confidence? Like I said, before: people can (AND DO) have sex with anyone or anyTHING. Your involuntary celibacy is due to the fact that you haven't forced yourself on someone, played games to reduce someone to playing the role of a whore, that you haven't placed an unrealistic level of importance upon sex, and that you have enough respect for women (and, yourself) that you opt NOT to enter into meaningless, risky sexual encounters.
There are millions of women out there who would be THRILLED to enter into a relationship with you! You might want to try meeting people at different social/civic organizations - health support groups, neighborhood watch groups, etc. When you have met the Right Gal, things will "CLICK" and you will be able to tell her that you haven't been with someone for 15 years. I can't tell you what a turnon that would be! When you meet the Right One...FIREWORKS, baby! FIREWORKS!!!!
And, it might not be a bad idea to start imagining the fireworks - it'll show in your movement, your body language, and your voice. Things will work out for you in the manner that they are meant to.