I dont know what this womans reasons for not wanting sex is yet. She has told me "not yet" several times but when I ask what she means, she said it will be "soon" but thats all that has been discussed. I know she's been hurt in the past and has issues with her prior relationships, but she constantly tells me how she appreciates that she can trust me and how unlike all the others I am.....but I've heard this all before. Its like a broken record to me. Other women have used this one, or just the more general "I'm not ready for sex" line (when they really mean that their just "not ready for sex with me"). She obviously knows where I stand, but if these women only like me as a friend and don't feel chemistry or sexual attraction, then why would they continue to go out with me (knowing that their misleading me)? Its not like we're a couple of young teenagers. We're 39 and 40