i disagree with the statement "either a peson has love in their heart or they don't"
this is a very black and white way of looking at things. sometimes the love in our hearts get clouded and buried beneath the cares of worries of this world and so it does not shine thru, but it is still there. it may be dormant, sleeping, or totally obscured, but it does not die. the seed of hope and love is eternal, and that seed lies in the heart of everyman. we can choose to ignore it or we can care and water it, but it is there nonetheless.