I agree with you 100%. I also think it's fine to find a certain type of person extremely attractive, but people can't be so stubborn that they don't like anything else. I just don't get why these guys have to make comments about it to their partner. It makes me feel like he's dating me for all the wrong reasons just by saying that. I do try to let him know that it bothers me (by stating it obviously, not hinting), but he doesn't stop. I know it's unhealthy not to end the relationship. It would be hard for me to do because we've been together for 3 years. I have noticed that problems like this don't tend to show up at first and by then it's hard to end things because of everything you put into the relationship. I may have no other choice because he might change what he says, but I will still know what he thinks.