Is it worth trying to fix this? I don't think I can do anything about it, but I'd be willing to try. I do agree with my boyfriend a little bit - I tend to be more attracted to average builds, but I find many heavier men attractive and would date them. I honestly think that weight will never be a problem for me. I just don't like having the idea in the back of me head that he may not accept me later on if I'm heavier. He sees me as "perfect" when a lot of people think I'm almost too thin. This could also be a trigger for an eating disorder if I let it get to me (but I don't)! I have told him many times before that he's being picky and it didn't seem to get through to him. Peoples' weight gets brought up a lot because it's one of the first things he tells me about a person after he meets them.
I hear stuff like, "This chubby lady..." or "She was thin...". Doesn't seem like relevant information to me! I'm not trying to make him sound like a bad person. He just doesn't realize what these pointsless comments make me feel like and what they make me think of him.