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Re: Preoccupied with weight
I agree with what Molly Bloom posted - this man seems to be judging people via superficial and media-related influences.
A healthy relationship (romantic or platonic) is based upon encouragement, support, honesty, acceptance, trust, and respect. It sounds as if your fiancee is stuck in a world of appearances rather than quality. It also reminds me of those men who, after being married for 10 years and producing offspring, dump their wives in lieu of a Trophy Wife. If you do choose to enter into a legal, binding contract of marriage to this guy, grab your seatbelt and settle in for a bumpy ride.
If it were me, I'd drop this guy like a grenade and find someone who is on my level of personal growth. Nobody has to "settle" for someone that is obviously incompatible just to fill loneliness. Once we're comfortable in our own skins, we don't feel the need to hold on to someone else to fill in a void. Yeppers, I'd run mighty quick.