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just wanted to say...


Hi Guys

Just wanted to say what really lovely people you all sound like.

I have had this condition for 10 years now, and in the last 2 years or so outbreak activity has been pretty high.

Before that I had no outbreak activity.

It has been a really hard thing to deal with and come terms with but I gotta say I think I am really comfortable with it now.

I have been in a steady relationship for three years now, frequent sexual activity, no protection, never passed it on (to mine and his knowledge!)

The fact is that if you have an OB you should obstain from 'relations' but if you dont you can pretty much carry on as normal. Lets keep it in perspective and realise that people who have had coldsore in the past do not have to go around informing everyone they meet and might kiss but they should obstain from kissing when they have an active coldsore - this is just the same.


Of course I dont advocate not telling - as the consequences to your own conscience are just too severe - but I do think that if you can put ot across in the right way it shouldnt put anyone off you as the risk of passing it on is extremely minimal as long as you know your body and are honest about what you feel physically.

I guess what I am trying to get accross, is be happy in yourselves, know that it isnt really that big a deal and just be honest with those that you think would be worth your tine and comittemnt in a real relationship.

Me? Since I have been having - like 30 day OBs at a time, I a going to seek help - I am going to see a renowned classical homeopath who has a good track record with getting good results for this condition. I will keep you posted.

With love and light x
 

 
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