to answer your questions, no i have never cheated on her, but she always accuses me that i have. not physically but mentally. she has told me " you may not be cheating on me physically but are doing it mentally. if you take the time to think about it you might as well take the time to do it." also i have never said anything at a girl ar at the tv for that matter, wether she is there or not. we both work and i go to school. thanx for your feed back, i really appreciate it.