It sounds like you definitely have some sort of infection where the tooth was pulled. Have you thought about calling your doctor. Are you noticing any fever or nausea at all. When I had my wisdom teeth pulled I got an infection in one of the sockets and boy did it make me sick. I have chills, nausea, fever....called the doc and he got me some pain meds and penicillin and after the first pill I was good to go. I know we go for only natural here but sometimes if things are really serious you might need some medical help. Atleast any advice from your doc might be good. You don't want to let it go and end up having a bigger problem that you have to take to the dentist....good luck and keep pulling. Try not to get too much suction going when you are pulling, maybe just chew on the oil so you do dislodge anything else.