you really don't know much about the internet do you? do you think its difficult to track someone down over the net? if so, i suggest you read up on the subject.
where is Aunty? does it matter? this is not her job, people are here in their FREE TIME. she doesn't OWE you or anyone else anything. Are you paying her for advice? is anyone here paying anyone? if you are looking for someone to blame, look in the mirror. this forum is not about a contest to see who can cook a cure better than anyone else's. its about sharing information. what the hell is wrong with you?