Re: I need help with my relationship

Oh you people are too much! LOL. Yeah, I'm just like Hitler. I can totally see the resemblance. Except I'm in a loving relationship with the hottest most amazing girl I have ever met in my entire life and I treat her like a queen and she has wanted me to marry her since the first 3 months we were together.... But here is the catch, In order to get her to like me in the beggining I had to treat her like shit so she would become interested in me. I had to act dissinterested, aloof, dick-ish and rude. She admits to my face that she did not like me until I started acting that way. She claims that it made her want me more and that it was like some kind of primal urge that it gave her when I acted that way towards her. See for yourself
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And I know what you are saying, "this girl is just a girl who has problems and a bad example on which to base the whole female population" and that is something that is very logical and important to consider. However, I can personally say that this is not the first case of this that I have found. My whole entire life I have been the "nice guy". I would be the guy who always hung out with the hottest girls and everybody thought I was some kind of a player but when it got down to it I was just their friends because I got stuck in the friend zone. These girls would never ever ever have any attraction to me. I thought that the way you got a girl to like you was through being really nice to them. I did not want to accept that all girls wanted guys to treat them shitty. I said to myself "if a girl wants me to treat her shitty then she is not worth being with such a good guy as myself". I told myself that for YEARS and I never got laid. I never had any girls that were interested in me. I never could find love in a relationship and I was always very lonely and felt a hole in my life. I remember I met this one girl and we exchanged numbers. I would always call her asking if she wanted to hang out and she would say she had something to do or just not call me back. So about a month goes by and she calls me and leaves me a message asking if I could drive out to a far location and give her and her friend a ride to somewhere. This really ticked me off. My whole life I have had girls using me and getting favors out of me and just treating me like the nice friend who they could walk all over. So this was the turning point for me. I called her back and told her how I really felt!! This was the first time I had actually done this. I told her that I think its F'd up that she thinks she can use me like this and that she needs to find a new bitch and that if she doesnt call me back normally that she shouldnt call asking for favors and then told her to never call me again.

get this.

The next day she called me and left me a message saying she was so sorry and that she really actually liked me alot and thought I was really hot and that if I would possibly forgive her that she would take me out to dinner sometime and we could maybe hang out. You should have heard it. She was begging for my forgiveness. My dick-ish message must have turned her on so much that she was begging to get a chance at me now. It was HILARIOUS!

That was the turning point for me. Ever since then I always did very well with the ladys and my friends would say "jesus man, how do you do it?"

And now I have found the love of my life. I treat her like the queen that she is. I am happy, she is happy.

It's just human nature, like it or not :) Tweet