Re: Would Appreciate Your Input

Mama, I'm so sorry that you're on that rocky road - I know a number of spouses and significant others who are facing the same battle.

The only thing that I can suggest would be that you keep on attending to YOUR health and healing.  Hopefully, he will come around to at least appreciate that you are attempting to IMPROVE your Self.  If he goes along with you on that ride, WONDERFUL!!!  If he chooses to continue down his current path on that tired donkey, you can't take the reigns for him - it's his donkey, his road, and his choice as an adult.

I understand your feelings - so many people are so quick to ridicule what they don't understand and they don't understand because they don't wish to learn.  In most circles, we call that, "denial."

Keep caring for your Self, Mama - and know that you are an inspiration to many, many people, even if we aren't family members! 

Swish that oil, sister!