OH PLEASE! His post was neither abusive or narcissistic and it was TRUE! I am one of the nicest and moral guys you could ever find but the basic truths about young girls is that they like it when you treat them shitty and when they become complacent in a relationship they need some sort of excitement to stop them from acting stupid and make them realize that what they have is too good to lose. Its built into their DNA. The guys who are the most dominant and dick-ish are the ones who are going to dominate in life and they want to have babies with that type of person.
Its just a simple fact that many women try to deny but you really cant.