Re: I need help with my relationship

I've read a number of posts by this particular member and, quite frankly, it almost sounds like my abusive narcissist son who so despises women that he honestly believes that they are all out to harm him, specifically.  The apparent pervasive feeling here is that women are out to do harm to men (either in general, or to this particular member). 

<<There is nothing in the world that will make a woman straighten up her act than to see her man having a good time dating other people>>  Make a woman straighten up?  ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  An emotionally healthy and self-assured woman doesn't even NEED a man!  LMAOLMAOLMAO!!  If she finds a man who can be a partner and companion, first, then it's grand.

The "hottie down the street" is a human being with feelings, goals (hopefully), and dreams.  Harming (using) one person (hottie down the street) to inflict harm upon another person (current girlfriend) will never result in a loving, trusting, respectful union - there will always be the undercurrent of deception and intentional harm in a relationship such as that.  Such childish games can quickly evolve into abusive tendencies.  Be cautious and good luck!