I am mainly a lurker on these forums;once in a while I will say something, not often. It's funny how you grow to love the people who post here. I find myself thinking of different ones, praying for some, and even wishing I knew them in the real world as my friend. And of course, getting lots of wisdom and great advice! You are an absolute doll and I love your personality. Now, after reading your story, I am inspired by you and amazed by your personal strength. Please don't be discouraged by the thoughtless words of one. You have given much, don't change a thing about your style or personality. You are loved here!