Yep.

If I read right, you gained 70 lbs. You seem very nice, but for most guys that's not gonna work in the bedroom.

Sorry to tell you that most men do not go without sex for the time periods you indicate. Not your fault, but reality. Him being preoccupied and pushing you away are not good signs either.

Backrubs and doing whatever are great, but no guy is going to turn down sex unless he has a good reason (like he REALLY doesn't want it - maybe just not w/you). Men do not go for months / years w/o sex because they are sorting through how they feel about their feelings or how they feel about how someone else feels about their feelings.

For the ladies, if it takes more than a minute to figure out your man, you are figuring out how YOU feel about your man - he's already down the block...

Sorry...but above is from a a few urban professional dudes...and it only took a minute to agree... Tweet