Re: My husband doesn't want me sexually.

Is he on any meds that would affect his libido?

Has he had a physical in a while? If he's like my hubby, there's no way to get him to go to the doc. But, it could be something physical.

Yes, it could be your weight, but I doubt it.

When my husband doesn't want sex, it's because he's mad or angry with himself. He's having a battle within himself that no one can fight but him. It's hard to deal with this. Could this be your husband?

It could be that he wasn't ready for kids or never wanted kids.

Does he have any close friends or family that may know anything?
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He is not on any meds, however before we met he was diagnosed with hypothyroid. So I do not know if this has any bearing on what is happening now.

My husband is totally exausted, and if he is angry, I would imagine it is because he never gets enough sleep and we have so many different worries.
We are considering moving out of the chaos of the sf bay area to the north country where his family resides. I feel desperate for change to happen. There really is no peace here for us.

I'm pretty certain that he wanted our child, because long before we married we had lengthy talks about children. So we both knew it was in the cards for us to have one or two. My getting pregnant did not come as a big surprise, since we both chose not to use birth control. I would say he was well aware that the possiblity was always there for it to happen, when he would refuse wearing a condom. : )

He does have friends, but his friends are constantly as busy as he is, so there is little time for socializing. Out here it's work, sleep, eat, pay bills, get groceries, and repeat all over again.

If it is my weight, he would never say. I have asked him, and he says he loves me as I am. But I put my weight into question as being part of the problem, because I know he likes curvy women, but not BIG women. I don't think this makes him shallow either. Never once has he told me to diet or lose the weight.

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