Hi #61756...I've read Southern Belle's posts for 4 years and even emailed back and
forth with her on a subject 2 or 3 years ago...and I can tell you for a fact that she did NOT mean to hurt your feelings. She is a wonderful and caring person.
Believe it or not...there are several people on curezone who don't just post to see
their post in print...they take the time to post because they really care. This isn't just something to do when there's nothing else to do for many of us...we care about the posters that are in need and are sincere...and we think about them even when we're not sitting at our computer. That's why some of us have to 'pop in'...as
was said of me a couple of weeks ago. Many of us don't have the luxury of sitting
at our computers all day. Even though 'we're' retired..we stay very, very busy and
I have to 'make time'...to 'pop in'...and check on anyone I'm trying to help.
If you had been very familiar with kevinnader's posts...you would know without hesitation...that he is in no shape to be sitting down with psychology books and
reading and trying to decipher his own situation and thoughts. He needs help from
folks who already KNOW what's in those books and has an understanding of that kind
kevin absolutely DOES need positive support from people he knows actually care about
him. And all this garbage about getting drunk and bringing home girls had to have
come from someone who ... in spite of their age...have not matured emotionally. And
reading the 4 psychology books wasn't a much better response either...sorry to say.
Unfortunately there is a lot of very bad advice given on curezone. Hopefully, in
spite of the problems most posters are asking help with...they have the good common sense to take the good advice and ignore the bad. Because some of it is really,
Go out there and make this the best day you ever had, #61756. kathryn