First of all kathryn,you dont know the reason he used that door. So um,im not totally ignoring that.
I dont think he even thinks or knows im paranoid. I mean,even he text's me sometmes during the day,saying "what are you doing?" or somin. If he was that pissed or bothered about it,he'd tell me,believe me.
I will follow your advice however and take things more easy going. He cant throw me out either,we both pay the rent and if I was gone he would have to go as well.