I don't necessary agree with the first post, but don't limit us by saying that women need an external "something" in order to enjoy sex fully.
Why are women always saying they need something from somebody else in order for us to be "fill in the blank"
You never hear men limiting themselves by saying they need a woman in order to "fill in the blank, succeed, feel accomplished, ect)
My destiny is only limited by myself. I want my man to be kind and lovely. But it is up to me to be what I want to be. It is up to me to be sexually fulfilled. If my mate doesn't fully please me, I don't blame him; I take responsibility and make my own life fulfilling.