What if this God is really a Goddess? There would be no shame in living as you are. There would be no strict division of gender roles. Power would be earned by all, not given by gender. Men would be able to retain their sensitive side and live in their full humanity; while women would have an equal voice and role in powershare, fulfilling their full range of humanity.
Rigid thinking and gender roles are acidic to the overall wellness of humanity and the planet at large.