I would think coconut oil would turn the lecithin into a hard salve.
With the Jimmy method you do not heat the lecithin and if you did, it would not mix with sorghum because they are not compatable substances, one is an fat and one is a sugar. Oils only mix with oils and coconut is a hard oil.
If the coconut works for you, then you have found the correct method for you! I will add it to the many ways lecithin can made easier to take.