If you take and take and take and rarely give back, people become burned out and frustrated. If you do this and yet you don't even take their advice or you make tons of excuses as to why it won't work for you or don't follow through with anything, people begin to see that you're basically acting as a sponge and that they aren't able to help you.
Sometimes I ask for advice and support. For every time I do that, I try to give back AT LEAST that much to others. Ideally, I give back even more. There has to be a flow... you can't just continually take. Regardless of your issues, you have something to give back... everyone does.
In addition to needing to give back to others, I feel that it would be helpful for you to make your language a little less graphic and vulgar. I get tired of hearing about your ass, crotch, penis, pubic hairs, etc. It would be more appropriate on a men's board. It probably wouldn't be a big deal if it had been mentioned once, but it seems like every other post is about your private parts. There are many different people here and not all of them want to be exposed to your graphic language and obsession with your 'ass and crotch'.