Instead of giving your control away to everyone and everything else, why not take control of yourself first? Only kevinnader can control kevinnader's reality and progress towards health or not.
Perhaps, not expecting overnight "cures" unless you are willing to change your thought overnight. Without a big change in your thinking, healing will take a long time and be modest at best.
I think finding health is like putting a jigsaw puzzle together. Each person's puzzle is different, you must find your own pieces and place them in the proper place to view the completed whole, understanding the big picture, not just the individual pieces.
Something else to consider is that I personally believe with subsequent generations, our tolerance for pain as a species, has seriously degraded with time, perhaps due to living conditions as well as expectations and access to pain medication; conditioning.
Recondition your spirit, mind and body, accept things as they are now, and do something to improve those conditions or not... your choice, no one else's.