it is a running conversation that has run its course. if you are concentrating on doing what you need to do, you wont have time for worrying about things you cannot control. since we all die and since all of time is a continuum, we are all already dead. the only thing we can do about it is determine the record of our living. choose what you want to be known for and do that.
read my post at the top of the forum here and give us your thoughts. its the one on self control. i posted it mainly for your benefit.