I can only know that the posts by MH are factual responses if I know the source of information used for the basis of the response. Otherwise, it seems like it's coming as an opinion from MH himself. I really don't require a sugar-coating to swallow a truth - I just need to know what the ingredients are, so to speak.
Thanks for the lead on the other forum. I have looked at it a few times, but not in depth. I do visit a website that is all about that subject and it does bring me comfort as well as greater understanding.
I'd like to mention that the ONLY reason I brought up my son's death in this forum was to give MH as much background as possible to enable him to give informed advice about my baby daughter. I am not looking for a place to dump any emotions, they just naturally came up as I was writing my post.