oh my god, I cant believe there are so many other woman experiencing the same things. I thought I was alone. the weight gain 20 lbs, headaches, abdominal pain, bloating, and most of all lack of sex drive. but what do we do? I have three children and do not want to get pregnant. this method has really worked as a birth control. I'm considering having my tubes cut, does anyone know how much it cost's? thank you for all your help, I thought I was really alone. I get really depressed at times especially when I look in the mirror. I went from weighing 130 lbs to 150 lbs in just 8 months. but my diet has never changed. currently I've tried everything to lose the weight including becoming a vegetarian. but not 1 pound comes off. I don't like having sex because I feel bad about myself. Plus I don't even get excited anymore. my mood also changes alot. I find myself crying with frustration. does anyone know if planned parenthood will help with the tubiligation?