Hey girl, i know exactlly were your coming from, i am 22 and have 2 kids, my olsest is my little girl who is almost 3 and my son who is almost 1. And i also got the Mirena in me at my 6 wk post check up appointment after i had my son, so it was about march 2004 and still to this day, I have only had 1 real period all the other times i have just been spotting very lite.And that was ok with me for alittle bit cause i really wasnt having to deal with a period so i was fine and happy, but then i though, even though i happy not having a period all the time and just having lite spotting, i knew something wasnt right.But it sucks cause i dont have insurance and my doctor is real expensive. that god for medicade went i was pregnant....lol.but havent been able to go to get checked out again to see if im ok cause i dont have enough money.
but like all of us, we were happy went we got it cause mirena sounded great at the time.
and i guess im lucky cause i havent really been bothered that much with the side effects, like i havent had Acne or rashes.thank god
the only thing that was weird was that like i said barley a period and also i have been alittle moody sometimes, but not too bad.but i do have alittle pain sometimes in my abdomainal area soemtimes and when i do get it, it sharp and it hurts,
but the main thing is SEX, Me and my fiance have always had a really good and healthy sex life, weve been together for 4 years and for like the first 2 i was like always getting it and enjoying it, so i know he knows how to take care of me when it comes to that.but i guess its from the mirena that things have changed cause we have sex but of course not as often cause we got 2 kids, but when we do.i enjoy it alittle bit, but its nothing like it was before, and like you said, it takes a LONG time to reach my to claimax, and most of the time lately i dont cause it takes to long, and i really try to, keep my mind there and i guess consontrate on getting there, but it barley happenens, and i hate it cause i used to get there fast before,
and its stupid cause at first i thought that was maybe just normal cause weve been together so long and cause were getting older and were probley getting used to each other, but i seem to realize that i hardly even have the urge and the want, like i used to before, i never come up to him anymore, he always comes to me, which is different cause it was never like that before, and my fiance notices it too.im really thinking about getting it out too, and maybe tying me tubes or even just cutting and tossing them out...lol
and another thing is that, im lossing weight very fast, and i always eat alot.i weight like 110 , but my family sees me lossing it really fast, i think im ok and so does my fiance but i guess cause were always with each other and we dont notice it.
well hope to hear from you soon