you are so right it is surreal. There are more date rapers than there are gentleman out there ... that is why daughters need fathers who truly support and cherish them and do not judge if they get into trouble...a father needs to be on his daughter's side or else they will grow up seeking and looking for something from a man her father never gave to her... therefore men are consistently taking advantage of women.. the funny thing is you will talk to most men and they are appalled and shocked to think men would do such a thing .. but i betcha they have done it themselves and did not consider it date rape at all ...