Michelle, why don't you give us your full name, personal or business email address, home address and home phone number, so you will not be hiding either? Then we can call you, or come visit you and talk to you face to face?
I personally LOVE men. I just don't want them to tell me what to do. I've dumped every guy who has tried. Want to be in an equal partnership with them, but they, god love them, are a bit clueless. All those years of patriarchy in this country have given too many men (and some unenlightened women) the wrong idea about what it means to have equality. So skewed, and sad really.